There are many things in this world that are truly good for a person’s soul. For me, one of those things is the annual Girls Weekend, a tradition important enough to warrant a capital G and a capital W. After finishing undergrad, we all vowed we would never let this tradition end. Over the years, we’ve missed only two: one due to canceled flights and the other due to a dear friend living abroad. This year though, we made it happen. Four of the best friends this world has ever known under one small roof […]
Sleep & Dreams
Clara is a silly sleeper, something that I have come to appreciate on nights like these. Tonight’s nonsense came after a particularly emotional weekend for me. I can’t truly put my finger on what has been bringing me down, but I do know that the trigger has been Clara’s potty training accidents. Don’t get me wrong, she has been doing phenomenally well, and I am deeply proud of the progress she is making, but I just can’t seem to shake the disappointment when she has an accident. For some reason, it just kills me to […]
The Laundry Can Wait
Summer vacation at home with two young children is an odd time. I know many women would tell me to appreciate this time with my girls, they’ll only be this young once, it won’t last, someday you’ll yearn for days like this. You know, You’re Gonna Miss This. And I agree, I understand on some level, and I do my very best to treasure this time. But on the other hand, there are a bunch of young moms out there who I’m sure would agree with me when I say it’s downright exhausting. The days […]
A Happy Mom
A number of years ago, had someone asked me if I were happy, and I mean genuinely happy at least once every single day, I would not have been able to say yes. I have struggled with maintaining emotional stability in the past having experienced both some very high highs and some very low lows. I have sought help, learned the importance of talking about my feelings, made improvements, and repeated the cycle a handful of times. When I first learned that I was pregnant with Clara, I felt confident that I would be dealing […]
There’s No Use Crying Over… Broken Phones?
They say that people with Autism have difficulty recognizing, understanding, sympathizing with and/or empathizing with others’ emotions. I can’t really say I agree with this stereotype. They also say if you’ve met one person with Autism, then you’ve met one person with Autism. This one, however, I can get behind more than ever, as you will soon see how Clara defies yet another Autism mold! Our summer vacation together has been off to a lovely start. The girls and I have been spending plenty of quality time together and I must say that I’m absolutely […]
Dear Girls,
Dear Girls, Tomorrow I will return to work after six short weeks of maternity leave at home with both of you. The time I have spent with you while welcoming Eloise into our family has been so precious and while I know our summer together isn’t far away, it’s still so difficult to leave you both. At the same time, I must admit I’m looking forward to having structure and routine restored for both of you as well as for myself! Maybe someday you will know the joys as well as the trials and tribulations […]
Mother’s Day
Mother’s Day, a day to celebrate the women who raised us and the women who are currently doing the raising. To me, this is a day that at least should, in theory, celebrate more than just women who have procreated. It’s a day when I can celebrate being a mom but I can also celebrate the strong women who have helped shape my life and the lives of my daughters in some way: my mom, grandmothers, aunts, cousins, and dear friends, some of whom are mothers and some of whom are not. Without these women, […]
Eloise’s Birth Story
My due date for my second pregnancy was Monday, April 22nd, the day after Easter Sunday and the first Monday after April vacation. Clara was born four days early, so I was hopeful that our second baby, who I was sure was a boy, would arrive sometime before the 22nd as well. In fact, I had been coaching the baby to be born on the 12th for several weeks. I joked with everyone who asked that I thought the 12th would be a lovely day- it was the Friday before vacation and therefore would guarantee […]
Comedy
One of the main reasons that I started this project was not only to help me cope with Clara’s Autism diagnosis but also to help others who may be going through similar struggles feel like they’re not alone. A community of like-minded parents is indispensable as a mom and I have found that it doesn’t really matter if this community is composed of close-knit friends or hilarious internet strangers. I’m in a somewhat unique position as the only mom in my close group of friends so I don’t have a ton of mom friends to […]
An Ode to Daddy
I find it somewhat shocking that I have time to sit down and write today as it’s my first official day of maternity leave all on my own! Matthew took two weeks to be home with us after the birth of our sweet Eloise, but he is back to work today… on his birthday no less. Even though this morning was completely hectic getting Clara to her group class and picking her up on time between nursing, pumping, and ordering birth announcements, I feel the need to take advantage of the girls’ nap time to […]