Well folks, she did it. As of today, we’ve got a full-blown preschooler on our hands! And like she does everything in life, she did it with a lot of passion and a little bit of sass. Last night, we packed Clara’s new space backpack, a gift that has been sitting dormant in the guest bedroom for weeks now. Extra clothes in case of accidents, winter gear for outdoor adventures, nut-free snacks for mid-morning sustenance. Then, we picked out her outfit, an adorable navy dress with gold accents- one of my recent favorite consignment shop […]
Eight
Eight months ago, I sobbed in the parking lot of our town’s elementary school, sure that my daughter would be a special education student in that very building. I mourned the loss of the child I always thought I would have. I projected my own insecurities, a fair amount of assumptions, a couple of myths, and a world of things unknown onto my little girl. In those eight months, as you all know, we have been preparing for today. We have worked diligently to ensure Clara has access to the best supports. We have watched […]
The Month of Clara
Today kicked off The Month of Clara. Throughout the next month, we will learn a great deal about our little one’s abilities and we will celebrate all the things that make her special. Clara begins ballet this week, something that she can’t stop talking about. She’ll don her pink tutu and ballet slippers, she’ll twirl, and hopefully, she will make friends. The following day, she will join her family and friends as the head of Clara’s Crew as we walk to raise awareness and funds for Autism research and supports. And in addition to those […]
National Daughters Day
Social media tells me that today is National Daughters Day, a holiday that is, without a doubt, made up by someone competing to see how many shares he or she can get. But aside from the illegitimacy of this so-called holiday, it’s actually quite lovely to think about. On a particularly difficult evening for me, when I’m tired of being climbed on, drooled on, sucked on, I’m going to take this fake, millennial holiday and use it as an excuse to talk about my two favorite people. Growing up, I was more-than-borderline obsessed with American […]
Today is a Good Day for a Good Day
There are many things in this world that are truly good for a person’s soul. For me, one of those things is the annual Girls Weekend, a tradition important enough to warrant a capital G and a capital W. After finishing undergrad, we all vowed we would never let this tradition end. Over the years, we’ve missed only two: one due to canceled flights and the other due to a dear friend living abroad. This year though, we made it happen. Four of the best friends this world has ever known under one small roof […]
108
One hundred and eight. It’s a good number. A couple of weeks ago, had I come across this number, my mind automatically would’ve gone to my address senior year of college: 106/108 Pinehurst Avenue, also known as the greatest address of all time as it’s where I truly grew to know and love the best friends this world has to offer. Eleven college seniors under one roof sounds chaotic, and believe me, it was. Chaotic, usually quite messy, and a hell of a lot of fun. On the second floor, four of us built memories […]
Sleep & Dreams
Clara is a silly sleeper, something that I have come to appreciate on nights like these. Tonight’s nonsense came after a particularly emotional weekend for me. I can’t truly put my finger on what has been bringing me down, but I do know that the trigger has been Clara’s potty training accidents. Don’t get me wrong, she has been doing phenomenally well, and I am deeply proud of the progress she is making, but I just can’t seem to shake the disappointment when she has an accident. For some reason, it just kills me to […]
The Laundry Can Wait
Summer vacation at home with two young children is an odd time. I know many women would tell me to appreciate this time with my girls, they’ll only be this young once, it won’t last, someday you’ll yearn for days like this. You know, You’re Gonna Miss This. And I agree, I understand on some level, and I do my very best to treasure this time. But on the other hand, there are a bunch of young moms out there who I’m sure would agree with me when I say it’s downright exhausting. The days […]
A Happy Mom
A number of years ago, had someone asked me if I were happy, and I mean genuinely happy at least once every single day, I would not have been able to say yes. I have struggled with maintaining emotional stability in the past having experienced both some very high highs and some very low lows. I have sought help, learned the importance of talking about my feelings, made improvements, and repeated the cycle a handful of times. When I first learned that I was pregnant with Clara, I felt confident that I would be dealing […]
There’s No Use Crying Over… Broken Phones?
They say that people with Autism have difficulty recognizing, understanding, sympathizing with and/or empathizing with others’ emotions. I can’t really say I agree with this stereotype. They also say if you’ve met one person with Autism, then you’ve met one person with Autism. This one, however, I can get behind more than ever, as you will soon see how Clara defies yet another Autism mold! Our summer vacation together has been off to a lovely start. The girls and I have been spending plenty of quality time together and I must say that I’m absolutely […]



