Trust Your Gut

Since sharing our news, we have received countless lovely messages of support from family, friends, and in a few cases, complete strangers. More often than not, in addition to some kind of “you’ve got this” or “Clara is so lucky to have you as parents,” these messages have been accompanied in some way by one of two things: (1) I’m so sorry to hear this news or (2) How did you know? I want to devote this next post to those two comments, as I feel they’re both worthy of a heartfelt response:  I’m so […]

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Welcome to Holland

I’m a crier. Most people who know me well know that, so it came as a surprise even to me that I didn’t really cry as I processed the news of my daughter’s diagnosis of ASD. When the doctor said the words, a few tears snuck out, landing on the keyboard on which I was furiously typing notes. That evening, a few more tears came when I shared the news with my husband. I think it was two nights later that I wept ever so slightly, saying between breaths, I feel like I haven’t had […]

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Come What May

Last week’s diagnosis came as a surprise, albeit not a complete shock, I suppose. Had we been truly expecting it, my husband probably would not have sent his 34-week pregnant and overly emotional wife to get the news by herself… He’s too good of a guy to let that happen on purpose. But I suppose on some level, I’ve known for quite some time that there was… something. I just didn’t know it was this. Autism. Autism? What do I really know about Autism Spectrum Disorder? I know it’s a neurological condition that affects a […]

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